Non-monogamy

Non-monogamy Last summer, I made my obligatory stop at The Strand bookstore in NY and noticed The Ethical Slut proudly perched on display. The prominent position of this guide to non-monogamy reflects our culture’s growing acceptance of non-traditional romantic and sexual relationships. Non-monogamy is an umbrella term covering all sorts of practices in which an individual has…

Threesomes

Threesomes I’m going to switch gears here and discuss a topic that’s a lot less emotional and a lot more fun: threesomes! How do we get over our fear of them? How do we arrange them? What can we do to make sure they’re amazing? Dynamics Whether it’s your first time or your hundredth time,…

The L Word

The L Word Dating (professional or otherwise) comes with the gamut of emotions: lust, excitement, nervousness, infatuation, and joy. These uncommonly powerful emotions amalgamate into a powerful force, we call Love. My goal is to discern these component emotions that we frequently group together; as well as examine their individual roles in the client/companion relationship.…

Embrace Cuddling

Embrace Cuddling You lie in bed together, your bodies interlinked, soft skin to skin contact emitting warmth and serenity. Your synced breaths calm life’s chaos, and you drift serenely into slumber. Cuddling is healing; yet it’s often misunderstood. Oddly enough, this post was inspired by a behavior pattern I noticed in my clients. There was…